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I recall a famous quote that has always left a profound impression on me. It reads as follows...
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"A hundred years from now it will not matter what my bank account was, the sort of house I lived in, or the kind of car I drove...but the world may be different because I was important in the life of a child."
-- Dr. Forest E. Witcraft
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How are you important in the life of a child? Are you a parent, friend, teacher, Scout leader? But is being a parent, friend, teach or Scout leader mean that you are actually important to that child? Maybe the question should be written – Besides being a title, what have I done to be truly important in the life of a child? What examples have I lead or taught?
I remember when my daughter was born – I never could imagine how fast she would be growing up – she is almost two. Time goes by so quickly and life is so very short. I made the personal decision early on that I was going to spend as much time with my child as possible. I would not put my child second – not to emails, phone calls, work or other activities that pull me away from my child more than necessary. Obviously I work but setting limits is important so that I can spend time with my child. I don't want my daughter to grow up and think that I was never there for her – not in the sense of body but in the sense of attention. Sometimes it isn't enough to just be there in body – but to be there in mind, be attentive to your child or to the children around you. Our children are growing up in a society that is turning its back on in person to person communication and wrapping itself in other methods of communication – internet, cell phones, media, etc.
I re-read this quote numerous times, it gives me a sense of knowing what I am suppose to do with my life. I want to be important in the life of a child just like my parents, mentors, Scout leaders, teachers, church authorities were important to me as I was a child. Each child deserves to feel the warmth of love, attention and appreciation every day.
Scouting has opened up the opportunity for me to share that with other like minded adults – adults that want to embrace our future, encourage the youth of tomorrow by showing them how to be better individuals, leaders, etc. Adults that want to take the time to spend with children to provide them that foundation for a better tomorrow.
If you think about an individual's life span – childhood is very short in comparison to adulthood. Take a moment to reflect what you have done for a child. How honest can you be with yourself? Do you spend quality time with your child?
My message to you is simple: Whether you choose to become a Volunteer in Scouting or not; take the time to spend with your child, your child deserves your attention. When you are at a unit meeting with your child – don't spend it on the phone, texting or calling, being inattentive. Don't just drop your child off and leave. Children, whether they admit it or not, love when Mom/Dad/Grandma/Grandpa/Siblings/Aunts/Uncles/Friends participate and show interest in what they are a part of. Remember, your children are direct reflections of who you are!
Yours in Scouting,
Christina Coonradt, Alpine District Executive
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